Loving my inmate, got my visit, SO happy!

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Holy macro I’m exhausted but SO fulfilled and happy right now. I went to my visit, I shouldn’t have though. The weather was horrid. Blowing, drifting, and the road to get to pick his mom up had over 8 inches of snow on it and was NOT plowed. I got stuck a few times but… I’m a NYer. I can get through anything, bring it on mother nature. I left here at 5:30, got to her house (7 miles away) at 6:00. We got on the thruway, it was messy at first but we got about 30 miles in and it cleared up. Then about 20 miles to the destination, shitty conditions again. It took us nearly 3 hours to get there and we waited from about 9:00-9:45 to get into visit him. The trip is 157 miles one way.

I love this facility. It’s a medium security and the guards were actually friendly! I was shocked. The visiting was one big room with lots of vending machines and they do pictures at this facility. Randy and I got two done (one with his mother) and I’ve got them uploaded to flickr. I’ll put them at the end of the entry too. I must say he can rock anything, even those lame NYS prison green jumpsuits. Whew baby! He was so happy, I was happy. It was a GREAT visit. We also got to kiss and touch a lot, because the guards aren’t breathing down your throats. He’s calling me in 8 minutes or so, I miss him already. We’ve determined whether or not he’s kicked out of shock, things will work out and i’m feeling better about the situation.

Dianna and I left at 3 and we got into town at 5:20. We stopped at walmart so I could copy the 2 pics for her, pick up some pop, and I got my knitting supplies! (Also at the end of the entry). Then we stopped at Mcdonald’s and finally I took her home and she showed me how they tore out a few walls, painted a couple rooms, and she explained what else she intends on doing to the place. She mentioned getting a new TV as well, maybe she’ll get one that might require use of one of the well known tv lift cabinets. Who knows?

Then I finally headed home. I dealt with snow and had to plow through my driveway through a foot of snow due to a drift and now I’m here. I have a full belly, am exhausted, but oh boy do I feel high on life and I’m LOVING it.


His mom, him, and I. She NEVER smiles for pics


I hate how my body looks here but.. hey you take what you can get.


My knitting supplies. I can’t wait to get started!
I love my inmate today, tomorrow, and always. Nothing will ever change that.

Saturday Meme about…

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I don’t usually do the Saturday meme but I figured I’m up, why not? One of my favorite topics, sex of course.

1. Are you and your current lover (or most recent) always on the same page on sex?
For the most part we’re joined together for that one

2. If you had your way would you have sex more or less frequently?
More considering right now I’m not. When he’s HOME, still more frequently. My drive is extremely high

3. Have you ever been asked to do something sexually but refused?
Yes.

4. Have you ever asked a lover to do something sexually but they refused?
Nope

5. How long do you wait when meeting some new to have sex?
Um, not very. Mike was the first day, Randy the second.. you get the drift.

6. Have you ever engaged in a sexual act while driving an automobile?
Haha, yes. ;)

7. Have you regretted having sex with someone?
Yes, one night stands.. all 3 of them

8. Are you and your current/most recent partner in the mood at the same time?
Usually. If not, I’m quite talented at getting him there

9. When was the last time you had sex?
Too long ago ;) Last time it mattered was the last week of November actually

Now I’m off to sleep for the whole 2 hours I’m getting (Horrid timing for DST I must say). Then I’m hoping this weather doesn’t prohibit me from seeing him. I’m unstoppable when it comes to getting to my baby though so… eff the snow. I’ll make this trip. Off to dreamland I go, let’s hope I actually have a good dream instead of the nighmares I’ve been having. I imagine if I ended up dreaming of something like colon cleanser I’d consider that a nightmare. I want to dream of spring, summer, sunshine, and green grass. We’ll see how THAT one turns out. ;)