A custody hearing, divorce, marriage, and tungsten rings all in one!
I know a lot goes on with my life and it’s kind of hard to follow sometimes but I want to thank you all for being so supportive, understanding, and just there for me when I need a shoulder to lean on. I really appreciate it, especially those of you who I’m getting to know outside of blogs (AIM, MSN) because it’s quite comforting.
So, I’ll try to list what is going on exactly in all sorts of my life. If anyone has any questions about ANYTHING regarding well.. ANYTHING feel free to either comment and ask or IM me if you want. I’m not a private person, I’m pretty much open to discussing anything whatsoever.
- I’m going to be working at the hotel campground nights from 11-7 starting VERY soon. I took and passed my drug test today. The park goes full time in June and weekends in May.
- Randy’s divorce is on step 2. He’s been granted an index number and I’m going to be his summoner, once I deliver the papers she has 40 days to respond or it’s automatically granted
- Once his divorce is granted we’re going to beginning our wedding plans full swing and set a date and all that. We’re tossing some ideas around, he’s more into it than I am. It’s cute though, it’s really nice to have him 100% involved in the planning and enthusiastic. So far we’ve decided on getting married at the local county park, who is going to be in our wedding parties (if they accept of course), colors of blue and white, my ring is picked out, and we’re doing all the food on our own. He wanted me to pick out his ring and I’ve been browsing sites like tungsten rings which has a whole variety of mens rings from wedding to ones with diamonds or inlays. They’ve got other rings for men as well too. However, I think I’m going to let him pick it out. I don’t want to make the wrong decision. More about wedding plans when the day comes closer. It’s going to be in June of ‘09 though. I think on one of our following visits I’m going to actually take a napkin and write on it all our other wedding decisions so I have something on paper. Maybe I’ll even send him some printouts from tungsten rings so he can pick one out beforehand. I’m OCD a bit, I like things to be organized and written down a lot of the time.
- Court for Dillion is the 24th at 11am. Mom has agreed to take me down and we’ve talked about finances, babysitting, living… anything the judge would ask and we’ve got all the details worked out and mom is fully onboard with me getting custody of him and doing anything she can to help and support it

April 15th, 2008 at 12:54 am
Wowza wait a minute? You’re trying to get custody of Dillion? Holy cow I didn’t even realize lol. I agree that it’s DEFINITELY best for him considering what his mother has done. I applaud you for taking it on, but don’t forget, if it’s not possible for you to do so, it’s not technically your responsibility lol. I hope that the kid gets away from his mom anyway.
The wedding plans sound awesome! I’m glad you’ve found a job as well, that must take some pressure off. Good luck with everything, we’re here for you. *hugs*
April 15th, 2008 at 4:41 am
I hope everything regarding to the divorce goes as smoothly as is possible, and that you get custody of Dillion. It sounds like you ought to do, since you seem to have you head screwed on straight, which is, you know, kind of important for a kid! :O
The wedding plans must be getting so exciting, it’s great that you have something to look forward to!
I hope your new job goes well too.