Well just when it seems things are going well BAM another thing gets in the way and irritates me. I messaged Carrie about when she wants me to come down to deliver the papers and she said she’d only receive them if a cop served them, not me. I don’t know whether she was implying that she thinks only a cop can serve them or if she just won’t accept them if I deliver. Sorry to say, she doesn’t choose who serves them considering SHE didn’t file. Randy did. It looks like I’m just going to have to show up to her court date and serve them to her there because once I serve them and get my papers notarized she HAS accepted them and has 40 days to respond to them or contest or fill them out and mail back. She’s not making this easy at all and sometimes I just want to throw in the towel and tell Randy I can’t deal with this anymore. God, this marriage has been one of the most stressful parts of this relationship because she’s so freakin bipolar. One minute she’s nice and willing to work with me and the next she’s avoiding me or saying this or that. It’s bogus and I can only take so much of it. I’m going to have to leave early Friday morning to deposit money in my checking account so I can afford the gas to get down to the courthouse an hour and a half away. *cries* I’m so sick of all of this!