First off, because I’m so stressed out about not seeing Randy lately and edgy he asked mom to bring me up this weekend (the whole problem is that I can’t drive after working, I can’t keep my eyes open so I’ll get into an accident) and she agreed. So either Saturday or Sunday I finally get to see him again after over a month of not (May 31st). I’m SO excited, I cannot WAIT to see him again. *sigh*
Why does it always seem that on one word blog day I ALWAYS have something to say? I’m typing this on Monday but won’t post until July 1st so I still participate in OWBD. Well what is going on now…
Randy had court today. Carrie originally filed for it and it was for custody/support so she would get full custody and child support. Randy filed for paternity so all 3 were supposed to be going on today. Guess who didn’t show up? You got it, Carrie. I think it’s because there is a violation on for the next date so she probably violated the terms of her custody agreement with social services on the child abuse charges. Randy did court over the phone with the judge and appointed him a lawyer who will be receiving all the paperwork and will be arranging the test. The judge asked if he’d ever lived with the child and he told him no, the only way he’s seen him is from me taking a picture. Then the judge proceeded to ask if he was in a relationship already and he told him, the judge laughed and said well that’s longer than your marriage. :-p Pffft.
Their next court date is July 29th I believe which is when Carrie will be told she has to take Dillion to wherever to get his DNA and then there will be another date for the announcement of the results I imagine so we probably won’t end up finding out until the beginning of September or so. Blah, at least it’s in motion right now though and it’s looking bad for her. I hope to god he isn’t his but if he is there’s a long road ahead of us because he’s going to be fighting for custody although it probably won’t be hard with her current record. So there is one less stress on me, that’s all in motion to hopefully be taken care of. As long as it’s before he comes home I’ll be happy. I don’t want to be driving his butt down to Wellsville constantly for court.
Next up this month is hopefully receiving his divorce papers back which say that he is officially divorced and free from her. His parole board is also this month which will determine if he definitely comes home in November. Needless to say, anticipation was the perfect word to use yesterday. I’m anticipating every single day because I just want everything to be done. I hate uncertainty with an undying passion. We’ll stop arguing so much (petty shit) once we know if he’s def coming home too. That’s causing us both to be on edge.
Hurry up July, speed along!
